Some Crazy Questions Asked By Wife

What are you doing? Where are you? Why are you late? Are you among those married males who deal with such questions and even more critical and bombarding questions every day. Married life is not less than a roller-coaster ride with full of entertainment and excitement. I have seen many couples who all the time cribs about their married life and about their life partner or spouse. But, do you think that it is that bad, I don’t think so. I believe that it is one the most beautiful relationship. Marriage is a good mix of salty and sweet emotions. When I was a kid, I love to see my uncle teasing my aunty and in reply my aunty asking some out of the box questions from uncle. At times, that appeared too funny and crazy. Have you ever encountered such questions in your married life? I am here trying to share some questions asked by wife to their husbands which drive them crazy:

1. Why you made such a long call with customer care executive which lasted for almost 25 minutes? 

2. Even after seeing him back from office, still she loves to ask are you back from office?

3. Why were you talking to her so nicely even you don’t talk to me in similar manner? 

4. Who was she? Why you were so happy while talking with her?

5. I am going to cook curry, what will you have?

6. Are you hiding something me? I know what’s going on in your mind.

7. Have you had your food? For whom are you waiting for lunch? 

8. Do you think that I am lying to you and pretending? 

9. I want to learn this new thing, do you think that I should learn this?

10. Am I looking fat in this dress? 

11. Do you think that I am shouting all the time unnecessarily? 

12. Even if she knew where he will be going, still she loves to ask where are you going? 

13. Have you reached on time? Even if she receives a call from him after reaching office almost on time.  

14. Do you find that actress more attractive than me?

15. Even if she has given the food from home still she would ask what you had in lunch? 

16. Do you think that I am fighting without any reasons and irritating you? 

17. Why do you never pay attention to my words? 

18. Do you think I am stupid and don’t know how to manage things?

19. From last few days I am noticing that you are talking to her frequently, what’s going on that I don’t know? 

20. What do you do in office all the time? Why only you are so busy with office work? 

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Some Most Amazing Things You Can Enjoy Only If You Are Married

Are you married? Are you the one who knows how does it feel when you are at home with your spouse? Marriage is one of the most wonderful relations where two people decide to accompany each-other in the journey of life. Like any other relationship, this too has some ups and downs. But, the love of two people for each-other makes this relationship worthwhile and adorable. A number of most mesmerizing things that happens between couples can never be enjoyed being single. Let’s take a look at a few things which you enjoy as married and all singles miss these adorable feelings.

You have someone to be your date all the time: You will never have to go to party alone as you have your spouse as your full-time partner for all parties. So, be it the New Year’s ever, Valentine’s Day or a dinner date, you need not to look for some company to enjoy there. Rather, you have a permanent company, as the love of your life to be your side all the time.

No more scary night: When you woke up in night after seeing a bad dream, you are pre-assured there is someone with you, whom you can hug any time and feel secured and comfortable. So, you can say goodbye to those scary nights, as you have someone to hug and make you feel comfortable.

Someone to wake up with you all the time: Another most beautiful feeling is that there is someone in your room who will wake up with you every morning. The first thing you do every morning after waking up in the morning is seeing his/her face. You have a full-time partner, who is always with you whether you are sleeping or awake.

You have a best friend for life: Having a good friend is one of the best things that can happen in your life. They are the ones with whom you can share anything and everything without any fear and hesitation. They are the most trusted and reliable person of your life. Never forget that they are the ones who are going to be with you in your toughest time. And it is something which you expect from your partner. So, this is another benefit, which you can enjoy only if you are in married life.

You have someone who can take care of you: If you are not well or having high temperature, then you want someone to be with you all the time. You don’t want to get up and have a glass of water yourself in such situation, rather, you want someone from your family to do all this for you. Being married means that there is someone to take care of you when you are not feeling well.

You enjoy sharing things with your spouse: Marriage teaches you the most important thing in life is the art of sharing and being selfless. You learn to value the other person and his/her requirements than your own. You learn to put yourself in your partner’s shoe and understand their feelings. The word “I” is replaced with “We” and “Our”, so you learn to share more and enjoy more with your spouse.

You have someone to call your own: While you are surrounded with many people, there would be your partner whom you can consider as yours. You would be able to show all your rights on your partner. When you came back home from office there is someone to be with you and waiting for you at home. Now, you have more valid reasons to reach home early from your work. This is one thing which you would certainly love.

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Typical Husband Syndrome Which You Easily Relate Being A Wife

Husband might be the most loving and caring person on the earth and all the time worried about you. He might call you thousand times in a day to know your whereabouts or what you doing to show their concern, but, he is the one who can anytime annoy you with thousand other reasons. All Indian husbands have some supper qualities, which are common in all and annoy most of the wives. Your husband must have some traits which you can relate as typical husband syndrome. Here, we are sharing a few with you which we think are common in most of the Indian husbands.

Always mama’s boy: Whether he is in his twenties, thirties or in his fifties, he is and will always a mama’s boy. Whatever his mother says, does, she is always right. She can never go wrong. You can’t expect him doing anything which is not approved by his mother.

Listening disorder: You ask him ten different things at a time, but he will listen to only the thing, which is related to him or falls under their comfort zone. Rest of the things is just waste for him. They might easily hear that you cooked something nice for him, but if you ask them to help you in organizing the things on table, he will behave that he has never heard it.

Going to in-laws means high-fever: Whether it is being a few months or year, whenever you ask him to accompany you to your home, he always has some or other reasons to avoid the visit. However, he is treated as the kind at their-in-laws place, still he doesn’t miss giving all the lame excuses to avoid accompanying you.

Going out for shopping with you sounds really painful to them: Whenever you ask him to accompany you in shopping, they will behave like you asked something out of box. However, shopping is always fun and gives you a good feeling, but for them it is something waste of time and tiring. So, they will postpone it or avoid going with you.

House is like a dumping place: Your whole house is dumping place for him. It might be you have asked him to put his shoe in rack or put his laptop in place, but he will do it his way only. He will keep his things wherever he wants, you can’t make him change this habit.

Want to eat something delicious and new on every weekend: The one question which he will keep on asking you on everything weekend without a miss, what are you going to cook during weekend? Or he wants to eat something delicious and special over the weekend.

The wet towel has to be on the bed: Whether you have asked him million times not to repeat this and drop the towel on bed, but for him bed is the right place to leave the wet towel. No matter, whether it is fully wet or water droplets are dripping of it, still for him the obvious right place is bed only.

Inability to find anything in house: No matter you have told him million times where you have kept his things, but, he will never find anything by himself. He always needs your help to find the things or he will always ask you to give him that thing as he is unable to find it.

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6 Smart Ways To Become Your Spouse’s Best Friend

Are you among those spouses who love each-other very much, but still confused how to become good friends? It might be because you have never realized that friendship is important to build a healthy relationship with your spouse. To make your marriage happy and successful, it is important that you become the best friend of your spouse. You face many ups and downs in your life and you behave like a team, but to build a strong team it is important that you become friends first. If you still believe that you are not the best friend of your partner, here we are sharing some smart ways to become your spouse’s best friend.

Give your spouse enough time: You can’t build a good relationship overnight and similar is the case of building good friendship with your spouse. Understand each-other and give some time to each-other. This is really required to build good friendship with your spouse.

Spend more and more time together: To know each-other better, it is important that you should spend more time together. It might be you are so much busy with office work and other professional responsibilities, still spare some time for each-other and enjoy the company of each-other.

Enjoy his/her imperfection: Nobody is perfect and you should always enjoy this fact. It might be you are not good with a few things and totally worst in some, similarly your spouse might be awesome with something and has some weaknesses too. Accept his or her imperfections and enjoy it. Don’t behave like a teacher or mentor all the time, behave naturally and normally with him/her. It is not important to be perfect all the time, but it is more important to enjoy whatever you are doing together.

Explore the interest of each-other and participate: It is good if you know the interest of each-other and try to become part of it. It might be he/she likes something which you don’t like, but try to get yourself involve in it. Try to explore his/her interest and also participate in it. It will improve your understanding with your spouse and make you good friends.

Give feedback: It is good to listen to your spouse, but it is equally important to reply and give your feedback, rather than fuming when your spouse does something. Tell your spouse without any hesitation what you don’t like in more constructive way to him/her understand your point better. It is not necessary that you agree over things all the time, but it is good if you communicate your differences in more constructive ways.

Value each-other’s freedom:  Marriage is not a cage or end of your freedom and social life. The old notion of two becomes one after marriage is good to support each-other and behave like a team, but it does not mean that you forget your identity and freedom. One should never lose his/her identity after marriage as well. It is not healthy for any relationship to your identity. Try and maintain that thin line of working together as team and still enjoying your identity.

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6 Traits A Man Wants In His Future Life Partner

Last week, I was chit-chatting with my colleges. In our generic conversation, we land into the hottest and talked about topic and started discussing about the married life and our expectations from our life partner. I was surprised to know his expectations from his future partner. Generally, we assume that males are not as imaginative as females and they don’t dream and plan much for their marriage as females. But, after knowing his views I changed my opinion and thought that males too have different set of expectations from their life partner and it is quite obvious. It is not just about that they want a life partner who can cook good meal or take care of this daily stuff, but much beyond that on personal level and on emotional level. Let’s take a look a few traits what a man wants in his future life partner. 

1.       Understanding: This is one of the most basic things, which we all want and look forward in our life partner. We want someone to be understanding and caring as well. A man wants his life partner to understand his feelings and emotions. He wants his wife to understand their habits and hobbies. Our parents and friends at times refuse to understand us, but we want our life partner to understand us better and listen to us.

2.       No tantrums and drama: Most of the men agree over this point that they don’t want a life partner, who throws tantrums and will be drama queen. They want someone who is mature and sensible. Fighting some time is fine with everyone as it increases your love, bonding and good for a healthy relationship. But, fighting over everything, showing tantrums and making big fuss of everything is a big turn off for men. Therefore, they want a life partner who is easy going.

3.       Trustworthy: If you feel a strong urge to check the phone of your spouse, check her calls and messages, then this is the clear signal of distrust in her. Once you start prying into each-other’s phone call and messages, all faith goes into bin. Therefore, it is important to find a trustworthy partner and build a long-lasting trust in her. Trust is an important factor in marriage and can build or ruin any relationship.

4.       Doesn’t restrict you: Nobody wants to live in restrictions or under rules after marriage. We all want a life, which is very much free and independent. Your relationship doesn’t restrict you such as, “if you will go out with your friends, I will not talk to you”.  Such restrictions will make your relationship dull, weak, boring and suffocating. Don’t restrict your love and don’t let other restrict your social and personal life. Guys don’t want a partner who will not let them be what they are and impose different restrictions on them.

5.       Respects his family: All males want a life partner who will respect his family the way she does for her family. Families play important role in any relationship and you can’t imagine a home without a family. You can’t stay away from your family for long time, even if you are staying in different cities. You want your life partner to respect your family and behave well with them. They want that she should give them due respect and build a lasting relationship and understanding with them.

6.       Accept you with your flaws: The person with whom you are going to spend rest of your life should accept you the way you are. She should not all the time tell you that you are not doing it correctly or you have a bad dressing sense or anything else. She should accept you the way you are and you should not spend of her life changing you or changing your habits. She should believe in your strengths and ready to accept your weaknesses.

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20 Things You Must Discuss Before Marriage

When we are meeting our prospective life partner for the very first time we are not very sure what type of questions we should ask him/her. Most of us are confused about this and don’t know how to handle this situation. It is really awkward situations and at time you are not sure how to start the conversation. You should not hesitate a lot to start a conversation with your potential partner. But, don’t start a conversation with some out of situation questions. Here, we are sharing some important questions which you can ask to your prospective partner while meeting him/her for the very first time:

1.       What commitment and this life-long relationship mean to him/her?

2.       What attracted her/him towards you? Why did he/she become ready to meet you for this marriage meeting?

3.       Is he/she taking this decision under pressure or willingly?

4.       What are your future goals? What do you want to achieve professionally or personally?

5.       What is your thought about money or building wealth for future and for your family?

6.       What do you expect from your marital partner? How you expect her/him to support you and be with you in all happy, sad, difficult time and when you are emotionally down?

7.       How much time you want as your time and time for your friends and family?

8.       If anyone of you want to quit your job in future and want to start something of your own, is the other one will accept this change?

9.       When do you want to plan your family after marriage?

10.   Will you be comfortable staying with family or close to the family or want to live separately after marriage?

11.   Who will manage all financial planning part?

12.   What makes you uncomfortable and how you resolve your issues?

13.   What is your favorite cuisine?

14.   What kind of financial responsibilities you have presently?

15.   Do you want to buy your own house after marriage or you want to stay with parents only?

16.   Do you both expect to support family financially and the same will continue after marriage as well?

17.   How frequently you want to visit your parents to see them?

18.   Will it be ok with you to give up the career for kids if really required?

19.   Do you mind to settle in a new state or country if necessary because of your job profile?

20.   Are you comfortable with the salary difference between you?

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Tips To Maintain A Healthy Relationship With Your Partner

It is really easy to spoil any relationship, but more complicated to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner. Romantic relation with your partner has different kind of complexities and complications. To maintain a good relationship with your partner it is important that you follow a few things. Here, we are sharing some important tips with you to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner.

See the best in your partner and appreciate him/her: To build healthy relationship with your partner, try to find out the best in him/her. See and notice his/her actions, gestures, generosity and sign of kindness that’s more likely to stand out. Look for different good habits of your partner and appreciate them. Don’t hesitate to praise him/her and make him/her feel that you like and appreciate everything in him/her.

Ask directly what you want: When we are staying with someone from a long time, we assume that he/she knows us well, therefore, it is not necessary to tell everything, he/she will understand what we want. What happens when we make such assumptions? Expectations are set and just as quickly, they get deflated. Keep this in mind that there is no harm in telling what you want from your life partner. It enhances your bonding and smoothen your relationship.

Don’t ask typical standard questions from your partner: Don’t ask typical standard questions when you both are back from your work place. Don’t ask him/her, how was your day? Rather, ask did my message make you smile? Did you miss me during the day? What was the most challenging thing you faced in office? Ask such questions, which encourage some exciting conversation. It will increase your communication level and at the same time it will give you more insights about his/her daily routine.

Involve him/her in day-to-day activities:  Doing the daily routine tasks like cooking, washing clothes and dishes might be boring for your partner. But, to add some spark in it, try to it together. It might be more fun doing things together as a team, rather than completing them as responsibility. Exchange your tasks like sometimes you wash clothes and ask her to do something else. It will not only ease his/her burden, but you will get more quality time to spend together.

Take a break from your hectic schedule: If you both are working, then your life must be busy and hectic, maintaining a balance between your professional life and personal life must be difficult. Most of the time your mind is preoccupied with office stuff, deadlines and you forget to spend time with your partner. If your job is too demanding, try to take a break from your office routine to resume your energies. Visit some new places or take a small break from your work and enjoy each-other’s company.  

Try to understand his/her views: It looks really simple and easy when you hear such concepts. Most of the generic conversations turn into arguments when we expect our partner to agree over our point, rather than understanding it first. Take this opportunity to understand the view point of your partner before arguing with him/her.  This way you manage to escape various arguments with your partner and build a healthy relationship with him/her.

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Mistakes That Leads Marriage To Divorce

In our country, we assume marriage is an institution where you are not supposed to drop it in the middle. It is the bond for your lifetime. You relate this relationship with the new relationship between two families and three generations. But, there are things, which can make this beautiful relationship complicated and even worse. One should avoid such things and issues in life to make this relationship work throughout your life. Here are a few mistakes you should never make in your first year of marriage:

Having unrealistic expectations: Having expectations in any relationship is good sign that you want to grow in it and live it. But, having unrealistic expectations from your marriage can ruin your relationship. You should always remember that you should love and respect your spouse and it helps in strengthening your relationship. But, one more thing that is really important for marriage is acceptance. If you expect realistic things in your relationship, share, communicate and accept that you are not always on a cakewalk, there will be hard time as well.

Taking things too casually: If you are too comfortable in your relationship that is good. But, if you have started taking it too casually, then you are on wrong path. You should never take this relationship too casual. Pay attention to your partner’s words, requirements and his/her needs. If you are ignoring him/her frequently, not paying much attention to all small and big things, then get ready to face the consequences.

Involving your parents in your clashes: It is not suggested to involve your parents in all arguments of husband-wife. It is good to seek their advice whenever required, but their involvement in all matters will affect the freedom of your relationship. Be enough strong to make your decisions and stand for yourself and for your spouse or life partner.

Interfering too much into each-others life: Every relationship needs some time and it is the same with marriage as well. You need to give some time and space to this important relationship. At times, it is important to give some space and me-time in this relationship. It is good if you take small separate vacations to make your relationship bliss. You must show trust in your partner and give him/her some freedom as well. Interfering too much into each-other’s life and asking too many questions and spying can worse situation.

Being too fearful to share your feeling: If you are too fearful to share your feelings with your spouse, then there is something wrong in your relationship. Your spouse should be like your best friend. You should never feel bad or should not have negative feeling in your mind while sharing your feelings with your spouse. Being too scared to share your feeling with your spouse is a negative sign.

Expecting your partner Jack of all traits: This is another thing we expect from our partner to be Jack of all traits. We want our partner to be a good listener, healer, fixer, cleaner, dryer, washer, and much more than that. These kinds of expectations and thinking that he/she knows all can increase the burden of your spouse to put more efforts then required in your relationship.

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8 Signs To Ensure That Your Man Will Never Ever Stop Loving You!

We always like to get loved all the time. After marriage one thing which bothers all couples will the fire of love between us remain same? Will he love me like this forever? Will he always be with me throughout the life? These are a few things which boggle the mind of all couples. You can get the answer to all these questions yourself by noticing small things of your daily life. Let’s take a look at eight signs which will ensure that your man will never ever stop loving you. If he adhere all these qualities and things, so, he is the one who will never stop loving you.

100% commitment towards you: Being with someone in good time is always easy, but being with someone in the bad phase of your life is not that simple. It’s when the going gets tough and it becomes more important that you both stick together. A true man will never ever leave you for a small fight or because of silly reasons. He will always understand the importance of married life and relationship.

He will never avoid any problem: A true man will never show his back or run away when things get though in life. He also doesn’t bottle up his feeling until he explodes. If there is something which is bothering him, he will come up and discuss this with you. He will discuss the issue to solve and fix them to give new life to your relationship.

Will always pay attention to your requirements: He will never ignore your requirements if life. He will always try to comfort you and fulfill all your requirements. He will love to make you happy by fulfilling your needs.

He is wise and intelligent: The true example of man’s intelligence is not how smart he is, but what he does with this intelligence and wisdom. He will always notice something from an objective point of view and is able to give you good advice in any situation you face. He will always analyze and compare your situation and then only he will give you the best possible solution to your problem.

Will praise and appreciate the best in you: He will always want you to feel good about yourself. He will praise you for your good character and values. He will always appreciate you in front of people and even when you are with him only. He will always encourage you to do better and excel in life. He will always come up with ideas and appreciating words to make you feel good and happy.

Your problems are his problems: If there is something bothering you, it will bother him as well. He will take on your problems and try to figure out ways to solve them. Whenever any difficult time comes or any situation comes which bothers you, he will be standing by your side no matter what.

He will laugh at your mistakes: He always understands the point that all humans make mistakes and you too have the equally right to make mistakes and enjoy it. If you say something that annoyed him, he knows you didn’t mean it. If you will say anything wrong or let him down, he will not hold that thing in his mind for long time. He may be caring and sensitive, but he will never make you feel bad for unintentionally hurting his feeling.

Ensure your future security: This is one thing which he will always ensure for you. He will always try to secure your future financially and give you a comfortable life.  He will ensure that in any unforeseen mishappening you will lead and enjoy the same kind of life which you are enjoying today.

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Do You Think That You Know Your Husband Well?

Do you think that you know your husband well? Do you understand him well and know about his liking and disliking? When you got married, you face many things in the initial phase. You face many issues related to adjustments in new family and set-up, making balance between your family life and professional life. Apart from all these big and small changes one thing which is very important for a newlywed couple is adjustment and understanding between the couple. All these questions and much more give you an understanding of your relationship status. Here are a few things to make you understand how well you know your husband:

What are his short-term goals?: Do you know about his short-term goals? Does he want to buy a car or a house or something else is in the list of his short-term goals? Are you pretty aware about these short-term goals? If you are not aware of, then you need to work hard on your marriage relationship.

What is his most romantic idea/thought?: Do you know about his most romantic idea?  What are his romantic aspirations and thoughts? His idea of romancing, which he thinks is just perfect.

Who is his best friend?: This is one thing which you can’t miss to ask or know. Who is his best friend? Who is that person who is really close to him and in case of any urgency, he can rely on him or you can also contact him for help without thinking a lot.

What is his favorite cuisine?: What he loves to eat? What is his favorite cuisine? Does he love to have Indian food or he likes to have Mughlai, Japanese, Chinese, Thai or something else? Would you like to cook his favorite food or would you order something for him?

What is his dream destination?: Does he love to explore new romantic destinations? Is there any destination which he really wants to visit or explore? Do you know his dream destination? If not yet, then talk to him more and try to find out more about his liking and disliking.

His favorite movie/song?: When you have leisure time, what is one thing you both love to do? Do you like to watch a movie? Is there any movie which is his all-time favorite and he can watch it every weekend? Is there any song which he hums all day? If you know this, then you are on right track of knowing him better.

What makes him lose his temper?: Is there anything which makes him lose his temper? What makes him angry? To avoid any clashes and arguments, it is really important that you should know his anger point when you have to control yourself to avoid any tussle. It is really important to know this to create peace and harmony in your relationship.

What is his turn-off?: Do you know about things which turn him off? Is that any food, any ordure, or any topic in conversation, personal hygiene of individuals or anything else which works as turn-off for him?

What is his turn-on? It is also important to know his turn-on points. Is there anything that makes him happy or any situation or anything else which makes him happy and makes his mood light?

What is one thing that he never forgets to carry when he is leaving for office?: Is there anything which he can’t miss carrying when he is leaving for office? Is that his watch, mobile, wallet or his laptop or anything else? Do you that one special thing which he never forgets to carry with him when he is leaving for office?

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