Last week, I was chit-chatting with my colleges. In our
generic conversation, we land into the hottest and talked about topic and
started discussing about the married
life and our expectations from our life partner. I was surprised to know
his expectations from his future partner. Generally, we assume that males are
not as imaginative as females and they don’t dream and plan much for their
marriage as females. But, after knowing his views I changed my opinion and
thought that males too have different set of expectations from their life
partner and it is quite obvious. It is not just about that they want a life
partner who can cook good meal or take care of this daily stuff, but much
beyond that on personal level and on emotional level. Let’s take a look a few
traits what a man wants in his future life partner.
1.
Understanding:
This is one of the most basic things, which we all want and look forward in our
life partner. We want someone to be understanding and caring as well. A man
wants his life partner to understand his feelings and emotions. He wants his
wife to understand their habits and hobbies. Our parents and friends at times
refuse to understand us, but we want our life partner to understand us better
and listen to us.
2.
No
tantrums and drama: Most of the men agree over this point that they don’t
want a life partner, who throws tantrums and will be drama queen. They want
someone who is mature and sensible. Fighting some time is fine with everyone as
it increases your love, bonding and good for a healthy relationship. But, fighting
over everything, showing tantrums and making big fuss of everything is a big
turn off for men. Therefore, they want a life partner who is easy going.
3.
Trustworthy:
If you feel a strong urge to check the phone of your spouse, check her
calls and messages, then this is the clear signal of distrust in her. Once you
start prying into each-other’s phone call and messages, all faith goes into
bin. Therefore, it is important to find a trustworthy partner and build a
long-lasting trust in her. Trust is an important factor in marriage and can
build or ruin any relationship.
4.
Doesn’t
restrict you: Nobody wants to live in restrictions or under rules after
marriage. We all want a life, which is very much free and independent. Your
relationship doesn’t restrict you such as, “if you will go out with your
friends, I will not talk to you”. Such
restrictions will make your relationship dull, weak, boring and suffocating.
Don’t restrict your love and don’t let other restrict your social and personal
life. Guys don’t want a partner who will not let them be what they are and
impose different restrictions on them.
5.
Respects
his family: All males want a life partner who will respect his family the
way she does for her family. Families play important role in any relationship
and you can’t imagine a home without a family. You can’t stay away from your
family for long time, even if you are staying in different cities. You want
your life partner to respect your family and behave well with them. They want
that she should give them due respect and build a lasting relationship and
understanding with them.
6.
Accept
you with your flaws: The person with whom you are going to spend rest of
your life should accept you the way you are. She should not all the time tell
you that you are not doing it correctly or you have a bad dressing sense or
anything else. She should accept you the way you are and you should not spend
of her life changing you or changing your habits. She should believe in your
strengths and ready to accept your weaknesses.
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