Do You Think That You Know Everything About Marriage? Some Hidden Secrets Revealed!

Different stories, suggestions, advice and special touch of personal stories about marriage and such special stories are like a learning session for you. You try to learn a lot from other’s experiences and you think that now you know a lot about marriage and you will be able to handle the toughest situation very well. But, no matter how well learned you feel with these advice and suggestions, there are a lot of things which can give you jittery nights. You always feel that you are not fully loaded with everything to handle many situations, when it comes your personal experience. However, over the period of time, you develop your own sense of understanding and maturity being in this special relationship. Here, we are sharing a few things which no one tells you about marriage.

Together in sickness and health: This is one thing which no one will tell you. You are with your spouse all the time either your partner is well or sick, you will always be with your partner. You always try to make your partner happy, healthy and satisfied in this relationship. You tend to support your partner in his/her bad health by serving him/her like a nurse and doing everything to make him/her comfortable. Cleaning his/her things, making bed, and at times spoon feeding like mother. So, you do a lot of things to support your life partner always.

You need some space: No matter how much you love each-other and how close you are, still at times you feel like you need some space. You can’t be together all time and at times you feel like you need some “Me Time”. At times, you feel suffocated and you think that you need some special time for self. It is ok to feel like that to enjoy some “Me Time” only.

You feel the urge to sleep freely: You love to cuddle and feel each-other when you are in bed. But, there comes a time when you feel the urge to sleep freely on your bed the way you used to do before marriage. You feel like to sleep freely like a clock or in your favorite position, rather than cuddling your partner. It is something that you need your own comfort zone to sleep and you want to enjoy it.

Discovering new things about each-other: When you start living with your partner after marriage, you discover that there are a lot of things about which you were not aware of earlier. It might be related to his/her eating habits, sleeping postures, their personality at home or something different. You learn and discover new things about your partner with each passing day. At times, you feel like he/she is totally different from the person whom you dated/talked before marriage.

You enjoy each-other’s company: This is something which no one will ever tell you about marriage. You enjoy being together and you always want to spend more and more time together. You enjoy doing a lot of things together and it gives you a sense of togetherness and buddy ship when you are together. You are not just an individual personality, moreover a team of two great players.

You change yourself: When you find it difficult to change the other person, then you choose the other way to stay happy by making changes in yourself. You try to chance yourself for the other person to enjoy your relationship. You don’t want to argue and fight all the time over small and big things. The issues, which you think can be resolved by changing yourself, you just do it to feel happy with your partner.

Two-way communication: To make this relationship fruitful and worth you should always have two-way communication. A two-way communication is important for a healthy relationship. This is not possible that only you or your spouse will talk or say something all the time and the other person will always listen to it. You should always have a healthy two-way communication, where you both share your thoughts freely with each-other.

Some fights last longer: Nobody will ever tell you that some fights will last longer than your imaginations. At times, you might feel not resolving the issue and sticking to your point because you think that you are right and you are in no mood to compromise with your partner. It might be your fight will last for a day or for a few days. There comes a point when your self-respect matters more than your love for your partner.

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Some Most Amazing Things You Can Enjoy Only If You Are Married

Are you married? Are you the one who knows how does it feel when you are at home with your spouse? Marriage is one of the most wonderful relations where two people decide to accompany each-other in the journey of life. Like any other relationship, this too has some ups and downs. But, the love of two people for each-other makes this relationship worthwhile and adorable. A number of most mesmerizing things that happens between couples can never be enjoyed being single. Let’s take a look at a few things which you enjoy as married and all singles miss these adorable feelings.

You have someone to be your date all the time: You will never have to go to party alone as you have your spouse as your full-time partner for all parties. So, be it the New Year’s ever, Valentine’s Day or a dinner date, you need not to look for some company to enjoy there. Rather, you have a permanent company, as the love of your life to be your side all the time.

No more scary night: When you woke up in night after seeing a bad dream, you are pre-assured there is someone with you, whom you can hug any time and feel secured and comfortable. So, you can say goodbye to those scary nights, as you have someone to hug and make you feel comfortable.

Someone to wake up with you all the time: Another most beautiful feeling is that there is someone in your room who will wake up with you every morning. The first thing you do every morning after waking up in the morning is seeing his/her face. You have a full-time partner, who is always with you whether you are sleeping or awake.

You have a best friend for life: Having a good friend is one of the best things that can happen in your life. They are the ones with whom you can share anything and everything without any fear and hesitation. They are the most trusted and reliable person of your life. Never forget that they are the ones who are going to be with you in your toughest time. And it is something which you expect from your partner. So, this is another benefit, which you can enjoy only if you are in married life.

You have someone who can take care of you: If you are not well or having high temperature, then you want someone to be with you all the time. You don’t want to get up and have a glass of water yourself in such situation, rather, you want someone from your family to do all this for you. Being married means that there is someone to take care of you when you are not feeling well.

You enjoy sharing things with your spouse: Marriage teaches you the most important thing in life is the art of sharing and being selfless. You learn to value the other person and his/her requirements than your own. You learn to put yourself in your partner’s shoe and understand their feelings. The word “I” is replaced with “We” and “Our”, so you learn to share more and enjoy more with your spouse.

You have someone to call your own: While you are surrounded with many people, there would be your partner whom you can consider as yours. You would be able to show all your rights on your partner. When you came back home from office there is someone to be with you and waiting for you at home. Now, you have more valid reasons to reach home early from your work. This is one thing which you would certainly love.

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20 Things You Must Discuss Before Marriage

When we are meeting our prospective life partner for the very first time we are not very sure what type of questions we should ask him/her. Most of us are confused about this and don’t know how to handle this situation. It is really awkward situations and at time you are not sure how to start the conversation. You should not hesitate a lot to start a conversation with your potential partner. But, don’t start a conversation with some out of situation questions. Here, we are sharing some important questions which you can ask to your prospective partner while meeting him/her for the very first time:

1.       What commitment and this life-long relationship mean to him/her?

2.       What attracted her/him towards you? Why did he/she become ready to meet you for this marriage meeting?

3.       Is he/she taking this decision under pressure or willingly?

4.       What are your future goals? What do you want to achieve professionally or personally?

5.       What is your thought about money or building wealth for future and for your family?

6.       What do you expect from your marital partner? How you expect her/him to support you and be with you in all happy, sad, difficult time and when you are emotionally down?

7.       How much time you want as your time and time for your friends and family?

8.       If anyone of you want to quit your job in future and want to start something of your own, is the other one will accept this change?

9.       When do you want to plan your family after marriage?

10.   Will you be comfortable staying with family or close to the family or want to live separately after marriage?

11.   Who will manage all financial planning part?

12.   What makes you uncomfortable and how you resolve your issues?

13.   What is your favorite cuisine?

14.   What kind of financial responsibilities you have presently?

15.   Do you want to buy your own house after marriage or you want to stay with parents only?

16.   Do you both expect to support family financially and the same will continue after marriage as well?

17.   How frequently you want to visit your parents to see them?

18.   Will it be ok with you to give up the career for kids if really required?

19.   Do you mind to settle in a new state or country if necessary because of your job profile?

20.   Are you comfortable with the salary difference between you?

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Some Do’s And Don’ts For Valentine’s Day To Stay Happy!

When it comes to some something special, wedding or your relationship with your family and friends, you will listen many do’s and don’ts for that. But, when it comes to Valentine’s Day celebration, we hardly bother about the Day. You must have spent hell lot of money throughout the year on your wife for dinner, buying something nice for her, celebrating her birthday and much. Take out some time for your beloved and for yourself and celebrate this special day. It is not that you are marketing your love or showing it off, it is just you are making effort to make her feel that she matters a lot. Here are some dos and don’ts for Valentine’s Day to stay happy.

Don’t forget the day. It is not a good sign that you forget this day. It might be she is expecting something special from you on this day. So, mark this day in your calendar/appointments.

Don’t forget to wish her on the day. Whether she is with you or she is out of station, don’t forget to wish her Happy Valentine’s day.

Don’t buy kitchen appliances or cookery books for her on the Valentine’s Day gift.

Don’t gift same things every year. Don’t repeat your gifts, no matter how much she liked it or how much you liked it, but the gifts should be new.

Don’t buy shoes/footwear for her. It is really a bad idea to gift footwear to her. When it comes to shoes the first thing that matters is comfort. It might you are buying the shoes from a good brand, but there is no guarantee of the comfort and fit. So, don’t experiment with the footwear.

Don’t keep unrealistic expectations from her. It might be she is busy with her appointments, office work, or daily stuff at home like cooking, preparing food for the kids and other stuff. Don’t expect anything unusual from her.

Don’t over spend for the day, if you are on a shoestring budget. If you are not left with much amount in your account, try and find out ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day in more economical way to stick to your monthly budget.

Don’t give her a generic card. It is a special day, so choose some special card for her which will convey your message lovingly.

Send her a surprise gift at home or work place. Delivering a gift at her place is really a nice idea. The old standby gift is not a good idea to gift her.

Cook something nice for her. It is not mandatory that you cook something nice or complicated. If you will make a morning tea with toast for her, it will be also a good surprise for her.

If she is in her office on that day, pick her up in the evening or on the time she is planning to leave office. Even if your route is not same, still make some efforts on the day to make her feel special.

Make some special plans for her like take her out for dinner, or for shopping, or gift her some spa coupons or something similar to pamper her.

Switch of your phone or keep it on silent and enjoy her company. Keep all other disturbing elements away to enjoy the day.

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7 Things An Indian Bride Should Know Before Marriage

You must be excited about your marriage. You must have planned different things for your marriage. Marriage is very significant event of once life. It is important that you are very well prepared for your marriage. You should be well prepared for your big day and life after marriage. Here are a few things one should know before marriage.

1.       Try to know more about his family in advance: As you are going to shift in his family very soon. It is really important that you should know more about his family and family member before your marriage. So, you must be well aware about his family’s mind set, though process and other things. Also try to find out their liking, disliking, eating habits and other things in advance, so that you will not take much time to get adjusted in new environment.

2.       Learn to say NO diplomatically: After marriage, there are chances you are expected to do and say such things which you really don’t want to do/say. Therefore, it is really important that you learn the art of saying NO to the new family members diplomatically when situation comes without hurting their sentiments and emotions.

3.       Learn cooking basics: It is not really mandatory to cook three course meals all the time, but it is good if you know the basics of cooking. As a daughter-in-law you will be expected to cook something as ritual. Therefore, it is really important that you learn at least a few basic things to cook before marriage. Even you can’t possibly eat out every day for longer time. So, if you are going to stay away from the family, it is really important that you must learn the basic things. Also try to learn some fast and easy recipes so you will not spend much time in cooking and cook small meals without any hassle.

4.       Not dragging your husband in all family issues/fights: This is another art which you should learn and understand. Your husband is your life partner and he is supposed to support you in all situations. But avoid dragging him in all family issues and fights. All the things that you can manage and handle at your end don’t drag him in it. It is true that you might get a better solution of a problem after discussing that with your husband, but discuss it smartly. It should not appear that you are complaining or cribbing.

5.       Communicate with him: Communication is the key to any happy relationship. It is really important that you communicate your feeling to him and vice versa. Tell him about how you feel, what makes you happy or sad? Something that is bothering you or disturbing you should be communicated rightly. For a successful marriage it is really important that you learn to communicate and share your thoughts with your husband and become good friends.

6.       Your parents are still important: It might be you are married now and staying off with your new family or husband, but it does not mean that you forgot your parents. You are entering into a new life, but your parents will miss your presence at home. So, it is important that you try to maintain a healthy balance between your new family and old family.

7.       Be financially independent: In present world where nothing is certain, it is really important that you remain financially independent. It is really important that you should work after marriage as well. It might be that your husband is in a good job, he might be earning well, but still your money will help you to remain financially independent. Even at the time of requirement you can play supportive role and help him financially.

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5 Things to Avoid in Relationship during Rio Olympic 2016

Rio Olympics 2016 is about to see its inaugural ceremony on 5^th August, 2016. Are you ready with your plans, which game are you going to follow in this Rio Olympics? All men must be really excited to follow their favourite games, whereas all women must be eager to follow their favourite sports stars in this great event of fun, excitement and thrill. Are you going to make some changes in your daily plans or you will just follow the games and updates on your smart phones. But, here are some important things which you should seriously avoid if you are in a relationship:

Avoid using your smartphones all the time: If you are glued with your smartphones all the time and want to check each and every update on your smartphone during this Rio Olympic, then get ready to face the side-effects as well. So try to check it whenever you feel really important or avoid this if you are with your better half or your partner.

Don’t sit too much in front of TV: This is another big issue which most of us face during any important game. We just sit in front of TV without realizing that we are missing other important activating or our regular chit-chat session with our family or loved ones.

Avoid night outs to watch games in restaurants: The craze to watch games on big screens with your friends and family is taking high note nowadays. Most of the people want to do the same to enjoy and have fun. If it’s for the finals or any big match then it is good, but if you are going to do this in the whole series of games then think once again.

Skip indulging too much into junk food: While watching the games we all love to munch something, but take a watch at what are you munching during these big games?  So, avoid eating junk food to stay fit and healthy as your favourite sports star.

Don’t party harder after every win: This is one thing, which most of us do if your favourite team or athlete wins. So, partying harder with your friends after every win can affect your relationship with your partner as he or she might not like that.

Check your spending’s: Don’t spend too much during the Olympics as these are going to last for few days, but can create a big hole in your monthly budget if you spend too or beyond your budget.

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