6 Smart Ways To Become Your Spouse’s Best Friend

Are you among those spouses who love each-other very much, but still confused how to become good friends? It might be because you have never realized that friendship is important to build a healthy relationship with your spouse. To make your marriage happy and successful, it is important that you become the best friend of your spouse. You face many ups and downs in your life and you behave like a team, but to build a strong team it is important that you become friends first. If you still believe that you are not the best friend of your partner, here we are sharing some smart ways to become your spouse’s best friend.

Give your spouse enough time: You can’t build a good relationship overnight and similar is the case of building good friendship with your spouse. Understand each-other and give some time to each-other. This is really required to build good friendship with your spouse.

Spend more and more time together: To know each-other better, it is important that you should spend more time together. It might be you are so much busy with office work and other professional responsibilities, still spare some time for each-other and enjoy the company of each-other.

Enjoy his/her imperfection: Nobody is perfect and you should always enjoy this fact. It might be you are not good with a few things and totally worst in some, similarly your spouse might be awesome with something and has some weaknesses too. Accept his or her imperfections and enjoy it. Don’t behave like a teacher or mentor all the time, behave naturally and normally with him/her. It is not important to be perfect all the time, but it is more important to enjoy whatever you are doing together.

Explore the interest of each-other and participate: It is good if you know the interest of each-other and try to become part of it. It might be he/she likes something which you don’t like, but try to get yourself involve in it. Try to explore his/her interest and also participate in it. It will improve your understanding with your spouse and make you good friends.

Give feedback: It is good to listen to your spouse, but it is equally important to reply and give your feedback, rather than fuming when your spouse does something. Tell your spouse without any hesitation what you don’t like in more constructive way to him/her understand your point better. It is not necessary that you agree over things all the time, but it is good if you communicate your differences in more constructive ways.

Value each-other’s freedom:  Marriage is not a cage or end of your freedom and social life. The old notion of two becomes one after marriage is good to support each-other and behave like a team, but it does not mean that you forget your identity and freedom. One should never lose his/her identity after marriage as well. It is not healthy for any relationship to your identity. Try and maintain that thin line of working together as team and still enjoying your identity.

LoveVivah.com Rajasthan matrimony website gives Indian boys and girls marriage resumes. Search your future spouse from verified matrimonial profiles.

6 Traits A Man Wants In His Future Life Partner

Last week, I was chit-chatting with my colleges. In our generic conversation, we land into the hottest and talked about topic and started discussing about the married life and our expectations from our life partner. I was surprised to know his expectations from his future partner. Generally, we assume that males are not as imaginative as females and they don’t dream and plan much for their marriage as females. But, after knowing his views I changed my opinion and thought that males too have different set of expectations from their life partner and it is quite obvious. It is not just about that they want a life partner who can cook good meal or take care of this daily stuff, but much beyond that on personal level and on emotional level. Let’s take a look a few traits what a man wants in his future life partner. 

1.       Understanding: This is one of the most basic things, which we all want and look forward in our life partner. We want someone to be understanding and caring as well. A man wants his life partner to understand his feelings and emotions. He wants his wife to understand their habits and hobbies. Our parents and friends at times refuse to understand us, but we want our life partner to understand us better and listen to us.

2.       No tantrums and drama: Most of the men agree over this point that they don’t want a life partner, who throws tantrums and will be drama queen. They want someone who is mature and sensible. Fighting some time is fine with everyone as it increases your love, bonding and good for a healthy relationship. But, fighting over everything, showing tantrums and making big fuss of everything is a big turn off for men. Therefore, they want a life partner who is easy going.

3.       Trustworthy: If you feel a strong urge to check the phone of your spouse, check her calls and messages, then this is the clear signal of distrust in her. Once you start prying into each-other’s phone call and messages, all faith goes into bin. Therefore, it is important to find a trustworthy partner and build a long-lasting trust in her. Trust is an important factor in marriage and can build or ruin any relationship.

4.       Doesn’t restrict you: Nobody wants to live in restrictions or under rules after marriage. We all want a life, which is very much free and independent. Your relationship doesn’t restrict you such as, “if you will go out with your friends, I will not talk to you”.  Such restrictions will make your relationship dull, weak, boring and suffocating. Don’t restrict your love and don’t let other restrict your social and personal life. Guys don’t want a partner who will not let them be what they are and impose different restrictions on them.

5.       Respects his family: All males want a life partner who will respect his family the way she does for her family. Families play important role in any relationship and you can’t imagine a home without a family. You can’t stay away from your family for long time, even if you are staying in different cities. You want your life partner to respect your family and behave well with them. They want that she should give them due respect and build a lasting relationship and understanding with them.

6.       Accept you with your flaws: The person with whom you are going to spend rest of your life should accept you the way you are. She should not all the time tell you that you are not doing it correctly or you have a bad dressing sense or anything else. She should accept you the way you are and you should not spend of her life changing you or changing your habits. She should believe in your strengths and ready to accept your weaknesses.

LoveVivah.com Maharashtra matrimony portal gives Indian brides and groom profiles for marriage. Register now for choosing future partner with verified matchmaking resumes.

How To Gel With Your Sister-In-Law After Marriage?

Maintaining a good relationship with your in-laws, especially mother-in-law and sister-in-law is tricky affair. Sometimes it becomes so difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. Most of the time, we are very much worried building a good relationship with mother-in-law, but meanwhile we ignore another important relationship, your sister-in-law. Whether you live in the same house or she is married, still you should try to maintain good relationship with her. It is really important to remain emotionally close and in constant touch if you are staying separately. If you think that your relationship with your husband’s sister is not that perfect and you want to focus on that here are some important tips to bond well with your sister-in-law.

Make a friendly call whenever you are free: If you are not able to meet her frequently and you meet her only on festivals or long weekends, make sure that you call her up during weekends and off to make this relationship healthy. Talk something generic and of common interest. Enquire about her office life if she is working, talk about her husband, kids and other common topics.

Go out on lunch or dinner: If you are living separately, going out on dinner or lunch during weekends could be great option to spend some quality time together. Meeting up outside the home could be a good option to ease your tension. It is a good way to spend some quality time together and strengthen your bonding with her and her family. This way you will be able to know per personally, rather knowing her as sister of your husband.

Share some recipes: If you think that your sister-in-law is a good cook, don’t forget to ask her that recipe. You can ask her how to cook it or you can also share your favorite recipe too with her.

Don’t forget to wish her on Birthday & anniversary: It is important that you don’t forget or miss her birthday and anniversary dates. These are some important and special days, so you can’t afford to miss them. You can make a call to her or you can send a gift to her or throw a small party to give her a sweet surprise on her birthday or anniversary. 

Involve your husband: If you think that your relationship with your sister-in-law is not that cool, you can ask your husband to get involved in this and help you in streamlining your relationship with her.

Share more and ask for advice: If you think that you are stuck somewhere and she is the one who can help you out then don’t hesitate to take her help and her suggestions on the issue. Build a good level of understanding with her and share your problems and issues with her.  If you think she is capable enough to give you solution for your problem then go ahead and involve her.

Shop together and party together: This is one thing we all females love to do. You can ask her to join you for shopping. She can help you in choosing your dress, you can hang round, do some shopping and window shopping as well. Relax, enjoy and spend some quality time.

LoveVivah.com Gujarat matrimony website gives Indian wedding profiles of brides and grooms. Search your life partner with matchmaking resumes.

Avoid These 4 Words While Writing Your Matrimonial Resume

Once you are ready to get hooked, this is the time to take some serious steps to find a perfect life partner. You can get yourself registered with Lovevivah.com and create your matrimonial profile. You can also create profile for sister, brother, daughter, son, and self as well. It is really important to create a good profile. But, you should keep this in mind that a winning matrimonial resume is very important to find a perfect partner. While writing the resume you should always keep this in mind that you are choosing the perfect words to express and describe yourself. Using the right words can create a big impact on your resume. Similarly, using wrong words can create negative impact on your profile. Let’s take a look at five words which you should not use in your matrimonial resume.

Sexy, chick & hot: Well, when you use such words with your friends it looks cool, but, if you are using such things in your matrimonial profile it does not look good. If you describe yourself as “I am intelligent and hot” or “My friends describe me as sexy and chick.” These are some phrases and words which you should always avoid writing in your matrimonial resume. It might be some parents are managing the account of their child and looking for a bride or groom for their child, they will surely not like such language.

Prince charming: If you are writing the first sentence of your resume as “I am looking for a prince charming”, it is not the right way to describe your preference for partner. This is not sufficient for the male to understand what you are looking forward in your life partner. Prince charming sounds like a fairy tale romance or you are still in your school age or college where you believe in “Prince charming”.

Rich & well-settled: Would you really be interested in marrying a person who is looking for a rich and well-settled partner. This can give a wrong impression to the other person. If a guy has written this in his profile, then for sure it will give negative impact. What should really matter to you when you are searching for a life partner? Rather, you should focus on an intelligent, well-educated and career oriented partner. It is really a bad idea to mention that you are looking for a partner who is rich and well-settled.

Don’t use abbreviations or chatting word: This is quite cool to write OMG or LOL when you are chatting with your friends on facebook or on whatsapp. But, if you will write such words in your resume, it will not give good impression. The person can consider you as casual and careless as well. This is your matrimonial profile and you need to appear mature and talk sensible. You profile should showcase your true self and should not create a wrong impression.

LoveVivah.com Jewish matrimony website gives online platform for Indian boys and girls search for marriage. Register to find your future dream life partner.

8 Important Wedding Jewelry Pieces You Can’t Afford To Miss

Dressing up, looking gorgeous and to stun everyone with your great looks is the dream of every bride. An Indian bridal look is incomplete without the perfect wedding jewelry.  Whenever we attend any wedding ceremony, two things which attract us most in bride are her wedding dress and jewelry. A good jewelry is not less than a masterpiece, enhances your beauty and looks. You can’t go wrong with this. We can’t imagine any Indian bride without good jewelry. But, there are some wedding jewelries, you can’t miss as a bride. Let’s take a look at top eight wedding jewelry pieces you can’t miss wearing on your D-Day.

Gorgeous necklace: It is really important to wear a necklace according to your wedding dress. There are plenty of options available with different lengths, sizes, weight and work. You can buy a gold, diamond, meenakari, jadau necklace and many more. Generally, most of the Indian brides prefer wearing a nice small necklace with long ranihar.

Maang tikka: This is really an important piece of jewelry. This gorgeous head piece jewelry is a must buy for all would-be-brides to complete the bridal look. It has its special significance as well. It symbolizes the agni-chakra of your body. It also signifies the holy union of two spirits. Therefore, it is important to complete the look bridal look.  

Dazzling nath: Wearing a nath or a nose ring by the bride is really an age-old custom. Across India, brides wear nath on the wedding day, however the sizes and designs varies. In many states, the nath size symbolizes the wealthiness of the family and in-laws. Nowadays, most of the brides prefer studded, pearl clad or small diamond work naths. In some states of Northern India, it is a custom to wear heavy and bigger naths.

Wedding ring: A wedding ring is one such piece of jewelry that you never take off. It is one of most precious and close to heart jewelry. It is generally worn in the third finger or known as ring finger of left hand. Ancient roman believed that the vein of this finer is directly connected with heart, therefore, it connects you with the heart of your spouse. Apart from the traditional gold rings, now couples prefer to buy diamond rings and marriage bands as well.

Dangling earrings: Earring is as important as your necklace or any other jewelry. You can’t miss a nice earring when it comes to wedding jewelry. A bridal look is incomplete without a nice dazzling earring. Most of the brides love to wear long earrings or danglers with stones, meenakari or kundan work.

Tinkling anklet: Anklet or pyaal is a traditional piece of jewelry and worn by all Indian brides. It is one of the mandatory jewelry, you can’t miss wearing on your wedding day. There are plenty of designs available in the anklet to choose from. You can pick any design. You can also buy some chick designs as well with stones and meena work. But, when it comes to wedding day, most of the brides prefer to buy a traditional heavy anklet.

Bangles & bajuband: Traditionally, would-be-bride worn glass bangles, which represent safety, luck and prosperity in the married life and family. The color and designs of bangles vary in different regions. The North-Indian brides wear a chooda-a set of ivory and red bangles. In South India, brides wear green or golden bangles to signify the prosperity and happiness. In Bengal, the mother-in-law gifts the gold plated red and white bangles to her daughter-in-law. Besides, bajuband is another ornament worn traditionally by Indian brides. It is a beautiful piece of ornament worn traditionally. This is not very common piece of jewelry, but brides love it.

Kamarbandh/waistband: It is really a gorgeous ornament. A beautiful waist belt adds grace to a bride. It is designed in a manner to beautify your waistline. It enhances the beauty and looks of a bride. This is one of the popular bridal jewelry worn across the country by the brides. You can buy this piece of jewelry in silver, gold, kundan, gold with diamonds and gold with stones and meenakari. Choose a design which will add jazz to your bridal looks.

LoveVivah.com Christian matrimony site provides matrimonial resumes of boys and girls for Indian wedding. Search your future spouse from thousands for matrimonial profiles.

6 Incredible Honeymoon Destinations Within 20k

Honeymoon is one of the most exciting and romantic phase of one’s life after your wedding. After completing all your wedding rituals, you just want to leave for your honeymoon. But, after spending hefty amount on your lavish wedding arrangements you are left with little money. Are you worried about where you can go on your honeymoon within little budget? Frito not, here we are sharing six incredible honeymoon destinations to explore within a shoestring budget for honeymoon.

Beautiful Kerala: This is one of the most beautiful place in Indian and a must visit place for honeymoon couples. The place is full of coconut trees and enriching Ayurveda. You can spend some quality time on the seaside or indulge in traditional spa and rejuvenation treatment. This is just a perfect place to spend some romantic time with your spouse. Away from the fast life of city, it is situated between the tranquil backwaters, Kerala invites you to soak in its bewitching beauty. You can any time plan your honeymoon by paying Rs. 20K to Rs.35K per person for this beautiful place.

Mesmerizing Kashmir: This is known as ‘Heaven on Earth’ and ‘India’s mini Switzerland’. This is one of the most blissful places in India. You can enjoy the scenic beauty of this place. You can visit this place in winters when the valley is covered with a layer of white snow or in spring when you can see this beautiful valley covered with colorful flowers. You can spend some quality time with your spouse in beautifully crafted cottages with colorful roof and flower packed shikaras. Here, you can shop the most famous pashmina shawls and carpets.

Adventurous Himachal Pradesh:  This gorgeous state of Himachal Pradesh is popular tourist destination in India and attracts large number of people every year. Get indulge in love and romance at this beautiful location. This is one of the most picturesque places and you can spend some romantic moments with your spouse. Don’t forget to capture your special moments at this beautiful place.

Pink City ‘Jaipur’: Jaipur is popular as Pink City of Rajasthan. It is beautiful and a must visit destination. If offers you a traditionally beautiful city, which is very much full of colors. If you are a foodie, then this is a paradise for you. You can try some of the most authentic and rich food here. You can visit Chowkidhani, which is delight for food lovers, Janat Mantar, Hawa Mahal and shop in the crowded street of Babu Market. You can easily visit this place with Rs. 20K and have some memorable time.

Blissful Nainital: This is located at the foothills of the Kumaon Himalayas. It is one of the most sought after honeymoon destination. It offers you various attractions like Naini Lake, Bheem Taal, Teen Taal, and Mall Road for shopping. The candles of this place are very famous. You can buy some nice, different shaped candles. This scenic hill station is facinating and gorgeous. You can start your romantic love journey from this blissful place. You can easily plan your 3-5 days visit within Rs. 20k.

Lovely Jodhpur: Plan your honeymoon to this majestic place. Experience the rich and royal life style of this lovely place. This royal destination is just perfect to start your love journey with your life partner. The royal palaces and forts are must visit at this lovely destination. You can enjoy the folk dance and authentic food of this place. This is a perfect honeymoon destination within a shoestring budget. Minimum expenses and maximum benefits is the main USP of this majestic destination.

LoveVivah.com matrimonial site provides brides and grooms profiles for wedding in India. Find your future spouse with verified matchmakings.

Some Special Beauty Products You Must Use Before Your Wedding To Steal The Show

Gone are the days when we believe that beauty products are limited to females only and males should not use them. You must have seen various ads or different products like face wash, sunscreen, body wash gel, scrubs and many more beauty products specially labeled for males. Nowadays, males too spend enough time on their grooming. On your special day, it is essential for you too to look handsome and charming. All those cameras are going to capture you too with your bride, so you can’t miss a chance to look at par with her. So, if your grooming routine products does not include anything special except your bathing soap and your shaving kit, then let’s take a look at some must have products in your kit to spruce your looks before your wedding day.

Use moisturizer with high SPF: It is one must have product in your kit. You should use a good moisturizer with high SPF every day to nourish and hydrate your skin. According to Indian climate and sun exposure, it is always good to use high SPF creams and moisturizers. It should not be less than 30SPF to protect your skin from the UV rays.  

Face & body scrub: Your skin needs to breathe and it gets dull and look under nourished with the effect of pollution and dead cells. Therefore, it is necessary to rejuvenate and refresh your skin by scrubbing. Use a good face and body scrub at least twice a week to rejuvenate your skin.

Skin brush or loofah: It is not possible to use the body scrub daily. Cleaning the body simply with soap is just not sufficient to get rid of dead skin and excess of dirt. Therefore, you need something really special to make your skin alive. You can use a loofah or a body brush to remove all the dead skin and dirt from your body.

Foot scrub and cream:  It is not important to get the glowing face, but clean and pampered foot is also important. It will not look nice to show your chapped foot to your wife on your wedding day or on your honeymoon. It will spoil your impression. A perfect look can’t be imagined without tip to nail care. Buy some good foot scrub and foot cream to remove the dead skin and pamper your foot. Don’t forget to apply a foot cream at least once in a day.

Nourish your hands: If you want your hands to be tough, it is good, but it is quite possible that your wife will not like rough hands. Nourish your hands with good hand cream or moisturizer. The nourishing ingredients of the cream will keep your hands soft and supple.

Tan removal products: Tanning is not limited to girls only, after all rays treat everyone equally. If your job involves too much of travelling or you spend most your time in the exposure of sun, it is quite obvious that your skin will get tanned. There are various products available to remove to skin tanning such as scrubs, cream, lotions and masks, etc. You can use these products to get back the glow of your face before your wedding day.

Lip balm: Having chapped and rough lips is not just painful, but it is also a turnoff. For soft and glossy lips use a good lip balm of high quality. If you are not confident to apply it throughout the day, use it at least during the night to heal your lips and make them kissable.

LoveVivah.com Baniya matrimony portal gives online facility for Indian grooms and brides for wedding. Search your dream partner from Aadhaar verified profiles.