Avoid Saying 5 Things When You Are Meeting Your Mother-In-Law First Time

You have sailed through first round of selection process for arranged marriage. Now, it is time to meet your future mother-in-law. You must be happy and nervous at the same before meeting your future mother-in-law. Don’t worry, we are here to make your first meeting tension free and hassle free. We are here sharing some points with you that can help you to be prepared for your meeting.

Don’t give false impression: Don’t try to give fake impression to your mother-in-law. Don’t try to impress your would-be-mother in law by saying something or telling something which you actually don’t mean or do in the future.  Don’t say things like “I love cooking” when even you hardly able to cook a few dishes. So, avoid making such statements which you would not be able to do in the future.

Don’t start your conversation with negative statements:  It might be you must have not liked something in her son or you didn’t like some of his statements, but avoid mentioning such things. It might be you want to mention this because you want him to change his habit for good, but don’t attempt such suggestions in your first meeting with her. It may offend her and create a negative impression in her mind.

Don’t get tempted to share intimate information: If this is love-cum-arranged marriage and you know him from a very long time, you know him very closely, still resist the temptation to share something really personal about your relationship with her. Telling her how much he loves you, the place you already hold in his life will not make her happy. So keep such important and personal details with you only.

Don’t share details about your past relationship: No matter how friendly and loving your mother-in-law is, still avoid sharing your past relationship details with her. Your husband can easily accept and digest such information, but your mother-in-law will never happily accept this information. You surely don’t want her to do your character assassination in front of everyone before your marriage.

Never share your family secrets with her: If she knows your family very well and shares good relationship with your parents, still don’t get tempted to share some family secrets with her. It may be counted negative and in future used against you in the future.

Don’t argue with her in any situation: If you don’t agree with her over anything then don’t tell this upfront or avoid arguing with her. Rather, just try to ignore such topic or politely say that you are not agreeing with her over the topic, but still respect her thoughts. Don’t put your thoughts forward unless you are asked to give your opinion.

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How To Gel With Your Sister-In-Law After Marriage?

Maintaining a good relationship with your in-laws, especially mother-in-law and sister-in-law is tricky affair. Sometimes it becomes so difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. Most of the time, we are very much worried building a good relationship with mother-in-law, but meanwhile we ignore another important relationship, your sister-in-law. Whether you live in the same house or she is married, still you should try to maintain good relationship with her. It is really important to remain emotionally close and in constant touch if you are staying separately. If you think that your relationship with your husband’s sister is not that perfect and you want to focus on that here are some important tips to bond well with your sister-in-law.

Make a friendly call whenever you are free: If you are not able to meet her frequently and you meet her only on festivals or long weekends, make sure that you call her up during weekends and off to make this relationship healthy. Talk something generic and of common interest. Enquire about her office life if she is working, talk about her husband, kids and other common topics.

Go out on lunch or dinner: If you are living separately, going out on dinner or lunch during weekends could be great option to spend some quality time together. Meeting up outside the home could be a good option to ease your tension. It is a good way to spend some quality time together and strengthen your bonding with her and her family. This way you will be able to know per personally, rather knowing her as sister of your husband.

Share some recipes: If you think that your sister-in-law is a good cook, don’t forget to ask her that recipe. You can ask her how to cook it or you can also share your favorite recipe too with her.

Don’t forget to wish her on Birthday & anniversary: It is important that you don’t forget or miss her birthday and anniversary dates. These are some important and special days, so you can’t afford to miss them. You can make a call to her or you can send a gift to her or throw a small party to give her a sweet surprise on her birthday or anniversary. 

Involve your husband: If you think that your relationship with your sister-in-law is not that cool, you can ask your husband to get involved in this and help you in streamlining your relationship with her.

Share more and ask for advice: If you think that you are stuck somewhere and she is the one who can help you out then don’t hesitate to take her help and her suggestions on the issue. Build a good level of understanding with her and share your problems and issues with her.  If you think she is capable enough to give you solution for your problem then go ahead and involve her.

Shop together and party together: This is one thing we all females love to do. You can ask her to join you for shopping. She can help you in choosing your dress, you can hang round, do some shopping and window shopping as well. Relax, enjoy and spend some quality time.

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